no really, you see, there is this weird sense of excitement from being in the grey area between really going out and just for a flirt (unless you can keep it up long term in a committed relationship, good for you), or maybe called "ai mei" in chinese (go check your dictionary) which means, well, exceeding normal friendship but not yet having a real relationship.
other than that sinful feeling of excitement, you don't get problems that easily. i mean, you are less in responsibility for the other person so of course you don't need to go all the way just to make sure he/she is fine before you start looking after yourself.
plus, there isn't an obligation for you to understand the person inside-out and also not a need for all of your inner self to be exposed to him/her. you can still act according to your real character and impulses without worrying if it would bring consequences to the relationship.
heck, your decisions don't even have to pass through the other person's permission. the opportunity cost of "commitment".
no packed schedules, no rushes, more time to yourself. there, you have it, the reasons to have just a flirt instead.
no, i'm not suggesting that everyone should only flirt or that it's a good thing in the long-term. these are just thoughts that i've come into terms with.

now that you've taken another peek at my evil mind, i've gotta go mug for exams again.
where's that 48 hours per day that i wished for?!

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